Believe it or not, but every thought you make consciously or consciously have an impact on you, just like positive thoughts make you healthy and happy and negative thoughts make you sad and unhealthy.
We all have read a lot about the book “The Secret” or must have watch that movie or must have had somebody talk about it around us again and again not because people are meant to bother you with these kind of thoughts,
But more than that why you are being chosen to share the idea of secret again and again, one important thought around this is that you have been chosen by the supreme to take such steps for yourself.
On the other hand you will generally see that the things you don’t want in your life keep coming back to you, because somewhere you have connected your thoughts with the things you don’t want in your life.
We are kind of oblige to put “NOT” into our talks even with ourselves
I wish I don’t meet that guy again, (so when you say “that guy”, you automatically mention him to be a part of your life, positive or negative that is different)
When you say “I am not going to talk to her again” (you are establishing that connection with “her”)
Positive thoughts are supposed to be positive only without any negative word even NOT is a negative word.
So whenever you make a commitment make sure there are no “nots” attached in those commitments even to yourself.
And this thought apply in all the areas of your life
Whether its relationship, professional commitments, stating expectations, and to our every normal conversations.
To actually know the secret of “The Secret”, replace all your statements with positive ones.
Replace this “I don’t wish to see her again” with “I wish to meet new people in my life and wish to have positive relations”
Be aware about the words you use, be aware about what you want to attract in your life rather than what you don’t want to attract. It has a great impact on your life.