For parents, We get the children we deserve, whatever prominent personality traits your child have.. It is for you.
In life, We get the situation/problems we deserve.
For teachers, we get the students we deserve.
In relationships, we get the partners we deserve.
So I was in a workshop by one great psychologist in India and he said this and it just solved everything out for me..
Don’t take it wrong, but when you are in a difficult situation and someone say you deserve it, whatever they mean by it let it be their meaning..
but for you, it’s not because you have done something to deserve this, but because there is something in this situation which is going to bring a new learning altogether.
A new skill may be which you never had.. Or something you may need to become a better version of yourself.
Keep learning, stay positive.