“Your child doesn’t belong to you, they are born through you and belong to the Universe”
You are just a care taker choosen by the God to take care of his own children, you are just mediators. And when you are doing your best to take care of that child make sure you are mindful of your actions, make sure you are mindful of words, make sure everything is about helping that soul to grow, make sure you put love into everything you do.
Children are blessings shower them with love. Learning will take place. But before that you need to know that in order to make your child independent, in order to make your child happy, in order to make you child successful you need to give them experiences which are full of joyful learning, which are full immense love and concern.
No bad experiences have ever brought meaningful learning in any child. Even if a need to learn how to delay gratification that also need to be done in a way helpful for the child.
Basically put love into everything you do for your child and with your child. Because they don’t belong to you they belong to universe. They are not always going to be a child. They will be adults and we need loving, caring and happy adults.