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This is why we need to revise our developmental theories

The theories we all have read till about developmental milestones have always helped us to understand and we can always go back to understand any stage of life. All the theories based on different aspects gives us a holistic view about life and it’s developmental stages. Psychological theories are not personal or not subjective,  but […]

Everyday concerns: from counselor’s table

As a counselor I face these kind questions everyday, Am I right? Was he/she right? Am I wrong? Is it okay to feel angry? Oh I have hurt that person,  I am feeling guilty,  what should I do? And my only response to everything is validate all your feelings and there is no right and […]

Two brothers: A childhood tale

If you think you know everything about childhood, or if you think you toddler is way more clever than you could ever think off than this is the story which will help you know that they are innocent, we just need to find where their innocence lies. Till now this has been one of my […]

This moment is perfect

This moment is perfect for whatever you wish to do in your life. We have a consistent habit of doing everything “tomorrow” Tomorrow which never come or might never come, because what all you have is today, “this moment” to do whatever you wish to. Use this moment to tell yourself to START OFF. START […]

Present: Be here now

  “You never step into the same river twice” – Heraclitus Being in the moment is the ultimate destination of this journey of life, but at the same time most difficult thing to understand. Because there is nothing called present and everything is supposed to be in present only  Confused: You must be Because being in […]